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By: kats

kats — Fri, 03 Sep 2010 15:19:04 +0000

I have just broke up with an old girlfriend from 7yrs ago. I am upset even though deep down in my soul I know that I am not in love with her. about a year ago I had a really bad break with my then fiancee due to drinking too much as i could not coupe what i thought was a forced engagement at the time. A year later i still think about my ex fiancee but have finally come to terms that it is over. I just want to know why I feel upset about splitting with my most recent girlfriend even though i know that we are not meant to be!!Is it because it has bought up some old memories of my fiancee and I breaking up??? please help as im going a bit nuts.

By: leeann

leeann — Thu, 12 Aug 2010 18:03:26 +0000

thank you and good luck for you too! have a wonderful life x

By: Lazypieman

Lazypieman — Thu, 12 Aug 2010 16:45:22 +0000

I think you are right in your decision especially if there are kids around to think about, you have to put them first. Its never easy breaking up, but if you have tried and tried at some point you have to make that decision. It does get easier, my advice is try to put your heart into something else that makes you happy and takes your mind off your situation. Talk to your friends and family they will be able to help you most. Good luck, Mike

By: leeann

leeann — Thu, 12 Aug 2010 15:49:06 +0000

hiya i am going through a break up at the min, love the man so much but he has chosen the drug path and i am afraid i cant be with a man that is into drugs i dont touch drugs myself and i hate them. he says he loves me but wont go for help and to me that aint love, as i would do anything to help him, i have gave him chance after chance but now feel i have no option but to get on with my life i have my twins age 12 to think about. As much as i cant see my life without him in it i realy dont have a choice. my heart is breaking and dont know how i will get through this very hard time.