Comments for http://www.over-it.co.uk Tue, 21 Feb 2012 00:21:31 +0000 hourly 1 Comment on How to deal with heartbreak by Mbali http://www.over-it.co.uk/how-to-deal-with-heartbreak/comment-page-1/#comment-2286 Mbali Tue, 21 Feb 2012 00:21:31 +0000 http://www.over-it.co.uk/?page_id=8#comment-2286 He broke up with me because of me. I love him so much and its so hard for me to get over him. Every night I cry longing to hear his voices and him telling me how much he loves me. I never knew that it would end up being this way all because of myself not listening. how does one get over the father of your kids? He became my everything with him in my life nothing seemed impossible,he fulfilled every space in my heart. My question is how do I go back to fixing all this? I always wished to have a happy family since I experienced being raised by a single parent,I only wanted the best for my kids still do.I just don't know how all this started. He broke up with me because of me. I love him so much and its so hard for me to get over him. Every night I cry longing to hear his voices and him telling me how much he loves me. I never knew that it would end up being this way all because of myself not listening. how does one get over the father of your kids? He became my everything with him in my life nothing seemed impossible,he fulfilled every space in my heart. My question is how do I go back to fixing all this? I always wished to have a happy family since I experienced being raised by a single parent,I only wanted the best for my kids still do.I just don’t know how all this started.

]]> Comment on How to deal with heartbreak by sharon http://www.over-it.co.uk/how-to-deal-with-heartbreak/comment-page-1/#comment-2154 sharon Thu, 16 Feb 2012 17:53:06 +0000 http://www.over-it.co.uk/?page_id=8#comment-2154 I'm in the early stages of my breakup.we've bn together for 10mnths and he left me pregnant.its so hard,not coping depresssed bt I knw I wl get over it.ws deeply in love trusted him him bt he betrayed my feelings.its so hard to forget someone who gave u a lot to remember I’m in the early stages of my breakup.we’ve bn together for 10mnths and he left me pregnant.its so hard,not coping depresssed bt I knw I wl get over it.ws deeply in love trusted him him bt he betrayed my feelings.its so hard to forget someone who gave u a lot to remember

]]> Comment on How to deal with heartbreak by Greeninkathon http://www.over-it.co.uk/how-to-deal-with-heartbreak/comment-page-1/#comment-2151 Greeninkathon Thu, 16 Feb 2012 16:15:04 +0000 http://www.over-it.co.uk/?page_id=8#comment-2151 Its been 19 years and I'm still hurting. Ready to give up on life. It will never end. Its been 19 years and I’m still hurting. Ready to give up on life. It will never end.

]]> Comment on How to deal with heartbreak by Susie Hart http://www.over-it.co.uk/how-to-deal-with-heartbreak/comment-page-1/#comment-1980 Susie Hart Wed, 08 Feb 2012 18:10:50 +0000 http://www.over-it.co.uk/?page_id=8#comment-1980 I kind of knew things were not going right, I kind of instigated the break up then when he dumped me its been hard. Was with him for six years, we lived together. When I met him I thought he was the "one". How wrong could you be? We spilt in December 2011 but its still really, really hard. And to add to it all I broke my leg two weeks after we split. I've never needed him more. He didn't bother asking how my leg was or visit me in hospital so it shows to me it was the right thing. To get over him, I'm getting out and about and dating again... even although I'm still in love with him. I kind of knew things were not going right, I kind of instigated the break up then when he dumped me its been hard. Was with him for six years, we lived together. When I met him I thought he was the “one”. How wrong could you be? We spilt in December 2011 but its still really, really hard. And to add to it all I broke my leg two weeks after we split. I’ve never needed him more. He didn’t bother asking how my leg was or visit me in hospital so it shows to me it was the right thing. To get over him, I’m getting out and about and dating again… even although I’m still in love with him.

]]> Comment on How to deal with heartbreak by Stephanie http://www.over-it.co.uk/how-to-deal-with-heartbreak/comment-page-1/#comment-1971 Stephanie Wed, 08 Feb 2012 08:09:54 +0000 http://www.over-it.co.uk/?page_id=8#comment-1971 My boyfriend of 3 years left me on Saturday. I thought he would come back but last night it happened. He said he isn't coming back. He said he does not feel anything for me anymore. I have no idea how I'm going to cope. I love him more than anyone else I've had relationships with and now he is gone. We spent everyday together for 3 years. I just feel physically ill. I have absolutely no idea how I'm gonna get through this. My boyfriend of 3 years left me on Saturday. I thought he would come back but last night it happened. He said he isn’t coming back. He said he does not feel anything for me anymore. I have no idea how I’m going to cope. I love him more than anyone else I’ve had relationships with and now he is gone. We spent everyday together for 3 years. I just feel physically ill. I have absolutely no idea how I’m gonna get through this.

]]> Comment on How to deal with heartbreak by angel http://www.over-it.co.uk/how-to-deal-with-heartbreak/comment-page-1/#comment-1850 angel Fri, 03 Feb 2012 00:41:07 +0000 http://www.over-it.co.uk/?page_id=8#comment-1850 Thank God for the net. I now know I am not alone. There are others who have gone through this and I WILL SURVIVE! Though it really hurts! God does not give us more than we can bear; this too will pass. Thank God for the net. I now know I am not alone. There are others who have gone through this and I WILL SURVIVE! Though it really hurts!

God does not give us more than we can bear; this too will pass.

]]> Comment on How to deal with heartbreak by Georgia http://www.over-it.co.uk/how-to-deal-with-heartbreak/comment-page-1/#comment-1789 Georgia Tue, 31 Jan 2012 12:13:02 +0000 http://www.over-it.co.uk/?page_id=8#comment-1789 We were together 2 years, lived together a year. I'm utterly devastated and lost. I just want him back. I accepted who he was and the way he was. I adored him. I thought that by saying it was over he would pull his socks up and show more attention and affection. Now he's gone and won't even discuss coming back. It's been a week now and I can't stop crying. I have children, one is mentally disabled. He doesn't understand what I'm going through and I just can't keep the sadness hidden. We were together 2 years, lived together a year. I’m utterly devastated and lost. I just want him back. I accepted who he was and the way he was. I adored him. I thought that by saying it was over he would pull his socks up and show more attention and affection. Now he’s gone and won’t even discuss coming back. It’s been a week now and I can’t stop crying. I have children, one is mentally disabled. He doesn’t understand what I’m going through and I just can’t keep the sadness hidden.

]]> Comment on How to deal with heartbreak by philip http://www.over-it.co.uk/how-to-deal-with-heartbreak/comment-page-1/#comment-1747 philip Fri, 27 Jan 2012 17:07:16 +0000 http://www.over-it.co.uk/?page_id=8#comment-1747 another thing that is really helping me to cope is exercise. another thing that is really helping me to cope is exercise.

]]> Comment on How to deal with heartbreak by philip http://www.over-it.co.uk/how-to-deal-with-heartbreak/comment-page-1/#comment-1746 philip Fri, 27 Jan 2012 17:03:20 +0000 http://www.over-it.co.uk/?page_id=8#comment-1746 Just broke up with my girlfriend last week. Really struggling to cope with it. I think i´m still in denial and hope that we´ll get back together. I´m not as bad as I felt a few days ago though. It really does help talking to people. The most painful thing was the day we said goodbye to each other. We were both crying, knowing that it was the last time we´d be together as a couple. it was so awful. definitely the most painful thing I have ever experienced. the memory will haunt me for a long time. Just broke up with my girlfriend last week. Really struggling to cope with it. I think i´m still in denial and hope that we´ll get back together. I´m not as bad as I felt a few days ago though. It really does help talking to people. The most painful thing was the day we said goodbye to each other. We were both crying, knowing that it was the last time we´d be together as a couple. it was so awful. definitely the most painful thing I have ever experienced. the memory will haunt me for a long time.

]]> Comment on How to deal with heartbreak by Belle http://www.over-it.co.uk/how-to-deal-with-heartbreak/comment-page-1/#comment-1736 Belle Thu, 26 Jan 2012 06:33:11 +0000 http://www.over-it.co.uk/?page_id=8#comment-1736 Its terrible to feel like this, my boyfriend just dumped me we were living together for almost 2 years, I would do anything for him, he was my world. But both of us had a bad temper and slowly it started consuming our relationship; but we still kept trying (well at least me) . Everyone would tell me to leave him he was a jerk with me anyways and not good enough for me, but I kept trying cuz I adored him. Today he told me he never loved but only liked me, after everything, if it wasnt for me he would still be living with his sister or mother and would have his own place, truck, etc if it wasnt me pushing him. He lied to me that he wanted to get married and have a family with me, and he bluntly stated that yes it was a lie. I feel awful and I just dont know how Im going to get over him, plus he left me on debt cuz he got alot of stuff under my name/credit & i dont have a job so idk how im going to keep up with my payments :( Its terrible to feel like this, my boyfriend just dumped me we were living together for almost 2 years, I would do anything for him, he was my world. But both of us had a bad temper and slowly it started consuming our relationship; but we still kept trying (well at least me) . Everyone would tell me to leave him he was a jerk with me anyways and not good enough for me, but I kept trying cuz I adored him. Today he told me he never loved but only liked me, after everything, if it wasnt for me he would still be living with his sister or mother and would have his own place, truck, etc if it wasnt me pushing him. He lied to me that he wanted to get married and have a family with me, and he bluntly stated that yes it was a lie. I feel awful and I just dont know how Im going to get over him, plus he left me on debt cuz he got alot of stuff under my name/credit & i dont have a job so idk how im going to keep up with my payments :(

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