Over it

You should be proud of yourself, you have let yourself love and be loved.  Unfortunately this time it hasn’t worked out, that won’t always be the case though, dealing with this break up will make you stronger for your future relationships.

Eventually you will feel back to your normal self; hopefully you will feel better than your normal self with new found confidence and love for life. 

 

Evaluate your goals and dreams

Its good to have goals in life, whether it be saving for a holiday abroad to travelling the world for a year or maybe a complete career change.  Goals help us focus and give us drive and  you may already these, so  apologies if I am preaching to the converted.  But now is the perfect time to follow your dreams,  do what have you always wanted to do in life, use your newly found time to concentrate on your dream.  Travel the world, become a pilot, start your own fashion business nothing is impossible in this world. You now have time to make your dreams happen.  The world, as they say, is your oyster, enjoy!

 

If you are lacking in inspiration, as I was,  And not quite sure what i wanted next why not think about one of the following? 

 

Travel

“The world is a book and those who do not travel read only one page.” – St. Augustine

Ever thought about travelling, well now is your chance, go for it.  Travel can be a life affirming eye opening experience.

And don’t worry about going alone, I personally think its better to travel alone, you have no restrictions and can embrace every opportunity.

You can pick up a round the world flight for as little £900 now days, with 4 or 5 stops included. Hostels are cheap and affordable accommodation and not to mention they are great fun and a really easy way to meet people. You will find that every one is in the same boat and you definitely won’t be only person travelling alone.

Can’t afford to travel?

Yes I know it would be lovely to have the money to drop everything and go, with enough money in the bank to not worry about anything.   But for most of us this just isnt possible, so what about a bar job or just part time in a supermaket on top of your normal job.  You have the time to do it now, if your not to busy socialising, and you get to meet new people. 

Part time jobs can be rubbish, however if you have a goal  (travelling round the world) it becomes a lot easier , you know once you have the money your off having a great time.

 

Career

When you experience a break up it can have a really positive effect on your life, as you start to re valuate your circumstances.  Not having another person in your life opens you up to all manner of opportunities. 

Not in your dream job - Why not?  There is no better time than to concentrate all of your efforts on applying for your dream career.  If you put your mind to it you can achieve anything and being single gives you more time to achieve your goals.

You could even go abroad to find your dream job the opportunities are endless, go for it, you only have one life enjoy it!

 

Dating

After all this heart break and you want to try again, good for you!!  Why not, by now you are probably unrecognisable from your former self, your ex probably wouldn’t recognise the new you.

More confident, happier and with a new found love for life, who wouldn’t want you (we all know it’s not that easy) but hopefully this time will bring you the love you deserve.  If not you got through it once which means you can do it again.

If you been out the dating game for a while the whole thing can seem pretty daunting, well not to worry its easier than ever to meet new people.

Online dating

Its funny there still seems to be a stigma around online dating; people think that you will laugh at them if you say you met someone online. Some of the best couples I know met online; it makes sense really, as you can check out there hobbies interests etc in the comfort of your living room. Instead of trying to pull with a fuzzy head from to much alcohol, for some reason they never look the same in the morning.

Here a couple of good sites